Ethiopia is one of African’s largest countries with a population of over 80 million landlocked by various climatic and political struggles. On the bright side, the Ethiopian men are among the most handsome blacks in the world.
For this reason, most westerners, especially women have taken interest in men from Ethiopia and intrigued with their passion and athleticism. Most Ethiopian men are mostly tan with cheeky bones, thick stature and an animalistic appeal. They are extremely masculine and wear presentable clothes with style. They are also chivalrous and have good manners in many ways. Additionally, they care for their women deeply than those homegrown American men. So, you do not have to worry because they will take good care of you.
How to Date Ethiopian Men
Dating Ethiopian men is not, as difficult and complicated as, it may sound. This is because, for most women, the dating field can feel like it’s filled with landmines, traps, and pitfalls but it’s not the case. The dating field is not a war zone that you have to overcome and win. All you have to do is learn the most important things when dating these men and they are as follows:
1) Familiarize everything
This is one of the most important aspects of dating Ethiopian men. This is because it’s only natural that your date expects that you can easily familiarize yourself with him. It is not a good thing if you are always asking same questions repeatedly as it shows lack of interest when you overdo it. Just try to take it easy and be a sponge, absorb everything that they teach you and for the initial period, avoid being all over the place.
2) Be a flirt
It is always all right to do a little bit of flirting in your date whatever your age is. Your main priority is to get your date’s attention just to set up your relationship. It is best practice to engage in a bit of harmless flirtation without making commitments. Practice your womanly arts such as body languages, seductive and mysterious smiles, and alluring eye contact. Just do not confuse flirting with being a tease because you are not offering your body and just your attention.
3) Be a challenge
This means that you have to act demure and modest when you are flirting with your date most especially Ethiopian men. You do not have to be difficult to please instead you want to leave him coming back for more. Just keep your cool and show interest, but withhold a little and surprise him sometimes like asking him out. In short, be a hard to get.
4) Be his friend or a good companion
You must learn how to be his friend, meaning you have to be his girlfriend without him asking you to become more than either a sex object or a casual acquaintance. You want a relationship with not only flowers, hearts and flirting, but with emotional depth and substance.
You should respect your date’s wishes and needs, but not to the extent that you have to give him everything. Show him that you respect his views and intelligence by adding a smart remark. This works perfectly well for Ethiopian men.
A man wants to hear a good compliment or two, so, do not be stingy and give him what he wants. Hearing a good complement can boost his ego and make him smile. By this, the start of your date would be romantic because you have a good start.
7) Fun trip
This makes your date more memorable and unforgettable than ever. To do this, ask him to take you out on a fun trip instead of just eating your dinner in boring restaurants. Take note that it is more romantic if you go on a little adventure and this can deepen your special bond.
8) Do not be negative
Stop thinking in a nonsensical way because this will not help you on your dates. Just be natural and never show negativity in your actions or expressions. Negativity is always associated with depression and you do not want to end your dates in this way, right? Cut the negativity aside and focus or venture more on topics that are interesting and positive.
9) Do not be rude
Do not shout at him in public when you are still on a date. If you do not like his advances, just say so and stop acting like a bitch. Be civilized and talk to him in the right manner.
10) Learn his language
Naturally, this has the big influence that makes your date impressed with you. Of course, these men know English as well, so ask them to teach you some basics of their language. By this, your date will notice that you are very much interested in him and want to hang out more.
All things being equal, Ethiopian men are great to date especially when you take care to avoid the few types that are likely to cheat in a relationship.